Showing posts with label Guadalajara. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Guadalajara. Show all posts

Wednesday, December 7, 2011

The People United in…SCHADENFREUDE!


A recent faux pas by Mexico’s top presidential hopeful unleashes people’s intolerance of public embarrassment.

SCHADENFREUDE:  (from the German language) Enjoyment obtained from the troubles of others.

Enrique Peña Nieto
There are many peculiarities of the Tapatío culture that I have yet to “get” in my years of living in Guadalajara.  Early on after having worked in academic and corporate settings here for a few months, I arrived at the conclusion that the worst sin anyone can commit against a Mexican person is to embarrass him/her in public.  I have witnessed people come up with the most inane of lies in order to avoid embarrassment.  OK, this happens everywhere but what’s interesting in Guadalajara is that everyone else may know full well that the person is lying, yet that is somehow less morally reprehensible than public shame.

During the most recent edition of the Guadalajara International Book Fair (FIL, for its acronym in Spanish), “pretty boy” presidential hopeful Enrique Peña Nieto was asked which readings had been most influential in his life.  The guy gave an answer that made it quite clear that he is not a reader.  People forget that politicians lie all the time though this guy ventured to wing it instead.  I believe the real faux pas was the fact that neither Peña Nieto himself nor his staff had the foresight of guessing that at a large book fair, he would surely be asked about his affinity for reading.  Now, that is lack of vision right there!

A great number of people in Mexico reacted quite passionately, making great fun of the episode.  In the almost five years that I have lived here have I seldom seen Mexicans become so fervently united for a particular cause.  But Peña Nieto’s gaffe somehow became a good reason for people to flood the social media networks to incessantly ridicule the politician.  I don’t know much about him. There’s something about him that I just don’t like.  I am aware, however, that part of his potential as future president of Mexico lies in his sex appeal.  By the way, I also agree that it is important for a presidential hopeful to be well-read but can anyone accurately prove something of that sort?

It seems people have realized that what is in fact embarrassing is for Peña Nieto to have made it this far presumably just based on his good looks.  It was the people of Mexico who got him this far.  The embarrassment of making him the top presidential contender must be squashed or camouflaged by all means!  That is how the endless, mean, and downright cruel jokes have grabbed hold of the Mexican cyber-psyche.  Have we got nothing better to do with our time? Pena Nieto’s blunder is bad for him but good for Mexicans because now voters have the opportunity, prior to the July 2012 elections, of finding a “more cultured” top contender.

This situation also points out to another purported “embarrassment” that can remain in the shadows as long as there is someone else to crucify:  the average Mexican reads 1 to 3 books per year.  There’s no need to feel ashamed of that.  Everyone has a right to do with their time as they please.  It is questionable though for non-readers to malign another non-reader.   Please malign him for his lack of tangible political accomplishments.

What I really find baffling about this goes in contrast with an unrelated recent event.  The lovely city of Guadalajara has managed to stay relatively safe despite the drug-related bloodshed that the country has experienced in the last few years.  Recently, the city hosted what to date have been the most successful Pan American and Parapan American Games ever as well as the FIL, which is a massively successful event year after year.  However on November 24, the bodies of 26 people were dumped in a main artery of the city in a gruesome, highly symbolic message from organized crime to the local government.  I didn’t hear one single person talk about this. There was zero outrage, no tweets, and no Facebook updates.  The people of the city remained indifferent.  And I remain perplexed.

Back to Peña Nieto’s unfortunate blunder, a canned answer (i.e., a blatant but eloquent lie) would have done the trick and everyone else (myself included) could’ve continued with our superficial pursuits instead of actually paying enough attention to which politicians may be viable candidates for bringing Mexico out of this bloody and painful war against drugs.


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Monday, October 8, 2007

The $8,000 Elevator

I've had my car for 4 years now and it's in great condition though it had accumulated some pretty unsightly pings and dings, most of them my fault. As most of my friends know, I'm kind of good about taking care of my car. That is, I take it for scheduled maintenance on time.

OK, so last month, I decided to spend a bunch of money to get the car detailed inside-out and alas the car looks great...like new! Fabulous!

Last week, on a hot afternoon, returning home from work, the electric passenger window started acting up and I certainly messed with it enough until it stopped working altogether. I, of course, ran to the local SAAB dealer...they looked at it, and told me that it would cost me MXN $8,000 (about $800 USD) to get the whole elevator replaced since, for some strange reason, they couldn't just replace the small plastic piece that had broken off. Oh dear, I thought. And since I'm nuts, I also thought, oh sh*t, this has got to get fixed...RIGHT NOW...I CAN'T LIVE WITH THE WINDOW LIKE THISSSSSSS!!!!

BUT this is Mexico, right? So the customer service rep tells me, with a wink "Why don't you take it elsewhere? And who knows? Maybe they can fix it for cheaper..."

I wondered how much cheaper? Half the price? Certainly good enough for me.

I called Chava and he told me that in Guadalajara there's a whole district of shops where you can get car parts for cheap. The parts mostly come from stolen cars. I felt a little cringe but again, it was a small plastic part, probably made in China. The wave of guilt left me as soon as it came and I promptly said "Yes, let's do it!"

On Saturday morning we drove out to "the district". I was frightened by most of the sights - wild dogs, bandidos, the ever-present taco stand, dirt everywhere, the shops were shacks with rusty car parts hanging everywhere! Oh, and there was this street vendor who tried to talk me into buying a pair of binoculars...with night vision. Actually, the whole thing reminded me a bit of the South Bronx but with carnies, if I really used my imagination. I said to myself "OK, Cris now you really are in Mexico!"...and "Thank God for Chava!". He even knew where to go, a place called "El Chino."

Anyway, someone was able to help us quickly, as in zero wait, the work was done right there on the sidewalk. The staff was polite, professional and efficient; better yet, I had a new *metal* piece (which presumably lasts a long long time) installed in less than a half hour. The cost? MXN $600 (like sixty green ones!). Hell yeah! Unbelievable, right? This must've been one of the most memorable Saturday mornings I can remember, not counting this one time I was really hungover in Vegas. One time? I digress...this time, I was just shocked and full of glee.

With the leftover money, we headed to Teatro Diana and bought unbelievably cheap tickets for RENT. We also ate a nice lunch, bought floor tiles for the yard, then went to the movies...we didn't even come close to spending USD $100 for the whole day. Holy cow!

As for the guilt...well, I just have to accept that I'm in Mexico and I ain't gonna change it!

Monday, September 3, 2007

It's Been Five Months...

Wow, some days it feels like I've been in Guadalajara all my life, other days it seems like I just got here. And some days I just want to get in my car and drive north...that only happens when it gets really, really hot here which so far was only for a week back in May. But, I'm still traumatized!

Life is quiet here. Very quiet but in a good way. I quite like it...I can hear myself think!

Guadalajara is a busy city. Busy in the sense that everyone works hard. So, in general everything around here is quiet, because everyone is going at it, quietly. Work comes first. Actually, work comes second to family duties and values. So far, what I've experienced is that people work hard but not because they can get rich, they actually make little money; they do it because they're glad to have a job and are able to provide for their families. There is great respect for having a job and for trying your best not to f*&^ up and lose it. The ethic is really admirable.

That makes me one luck guy, actually. Yes, I work, but only 18 hours a week, teaching English. The pay is very good for Mexican standards, OK for U.S. standards (if you're, say, in Mississippi or Arkansas), and laughable for New York standards. Yes, it's easier to think of NY a its own country. So, with my low wages and few work hours, I've managed to find a nicer balance in my life. I feel richer in having more free time!

So, what else do I do with rest of my time? Well, I spend a decent amount of time developing this idea for a business that I want to start here (more on that later). I also try to cook everyday. I love it. It's like a meditation for me. Chava is my tester and he's a hard one to please so that keeps me on my toes. Lately, one of my biggest joys is to be able to use herbs from my garden to create my recipes. Ah, the simple life!

I still go to the gym and I do my yoga pretty regularly at home (Chava is a convert now). We download some fantastic classes from the Internet thanks to a podcast I found called Yoga Today. Speaking of podcasts, I don't know how I lived without them. They're free audio and video programs on everything imaginable. I love the fact that I have time to listen to many of these and they help me not feel so far away from US life...I try to keep a pulsebeat on things that interest me, much of it from the US.

Wait, I still have time left to do a lot of other thinking. These days, the environment seems to be a concern of mine...Guadalajara gives you plenty to think about, frankly. I already know that the green movement is the "in" thing but I do feel that my current concerns are well inline with this evolution that has taken over my life for the last 3 years or so...I'll be sure to share some more thoughts on that.

Well, I think this is getting long for my first post. I plan to share many of my thoughts here and keep everyone updated on my life here in Mexico. I guess I feel that I have something to say so, stay tuned! Until next time, adios!!!